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About me<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t
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From Exhaustion to Ease<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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\u2026and how I learned that you don\u2019t have to be Harry Potter to turn your desires into reality.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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As a lawyer, I was used to working long and hard, always being available and checking emails even on vacation. The line between work and personal life was blurred and my willingness to perform was used like an all-you-can-eat buffet.\u00a0<\/p>

I did everything that was expected of me \u2013 focused, ambitious, always willing to go the extra mile. I had created a life that was successful and impressive \u2013 but most of all: hard to endure.\u00a0<\/p>

I confused success with status, performance with perseverance and focus with functioning. At some point, I realized this path wasn\u2019t making me wealthy, fulfilled or happy. My career came with a price tag \u2013 and the cost, measured in how much of myself I was losing, was far too high.<\/p>

So I started asking myself a different question: how do I create a life I truly love? I began to understand human biology, regulated my nervous system and directed my energy \u2013 not as a technique, but as a state. Not louder, but more real.<\/p>

Because honestly? I was always too unathletic for that hamster wheel \u2013 and far too discerning for cafeteria lunches. Luckily, success isn\u2019t a talent reserved for a few but an inner state you can learn. And I\u2019ll show you how.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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\u00abGive your best, not your all .\u00bb<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t
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I\u2019m a very private person. I don\u2019t use Instagram, Facebook or TikTok \u2013 neither professionally nor personally.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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I come from an Austrian middle-class background, and my lifestyle isn\u2019t funded by my parents.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Apparently, I often \u201clook like a princess \u2013 but speak like a pirate.\u201d<\/span><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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I studied law and went on to work as a data protection lawyer \u2013 most of that time at KPMG.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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I love Pornstar Martinis, cheesecake and Italian cuisine. My absolute highlight: truffle fries.<\/span><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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\u00abSomeday, I\u2019ll be so successful,
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About me Von Leistungsdruck zu Leichtigkeit \u2026und wie ich herausfand, dass man nicht Harry Potter sein muss, um aus W\u00fcnschen Realit\u00e4t zu erschaffen. Als Juristin war ich es gewohnt, viel und lange zu arbeiten, st\u00e4ndig erreichbar zu sein und auch im Urlaub Mail zu checken. Die Grenzen zwischen Job und Privatleben waren fliessend und meine […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-124","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"yoast_head":"\nRaffaela Mueller | Magnetism of Love, Charisma and Influence<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Invisible Power Mentoring - for Charisma, Magnetic Presence and High value Relationships | Science-Based. 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